I woke up this morning with a fresh lightness, an ease. A new resolve to do things differently. To step into the person I’ve been aching, wondering how to create. I decided….to just become her.
The name for this post, How to talk to your soul, came to mind, along with the need to sit down and begin writing, even before breakfast, to connect to my soul and help you learn how to talk more directly to your soul and also to help you overcome some of the barriers I so commonly see.
The world of soul is the world of magic.
It’s the world of lightness and being and I suppose also darkness because soul is everything, but from soul perspective, darkness has a sort of lightness, too.
That is, you can embrace your darkness, or sadness or whatever it is you’re feeling with love, and then that too becomes a lightness, as happens when you talk to your soul.
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This isn’t the point of this post but a careful distinction because I am not in favor of spiritual bypassing, or suppressing your emotions, which is one of things that so commonly distracts people from connecting to their soul.
The first thing is to accept all things exactly as they are.
Any kind of resistance or wishing things were difference separates you from your soul. It separates you from magic and possibility while putting you at odds with life.
The second thing is to love, trust and work to understand yourself.
Too many people spend their time looking outside of themselves for how they should be, what they should want or do, rather than looking within and taking what they find seriously.
This is the biggest problem if you want to talk to your soul — people don’t take themselves or their souls seriously.
It’s like there is this inner divide. One part of you longs for this soulful, soul-driven life, but yet you allow the other part, rationality and over attachment to the dense world to control you and influence your actions.
If this is the case, you may find yourself longing to connect with soul, talk to your soul, create with soul, but yet spend all your time looking outside of you when the only real connection can be found within.
You don’t trust yourself.
And that’s part of the second thing of learning to talk to your soul, and perhaps I guess now the third thing —
writing from flow and soul and allowing this to be non-linear because that is part of the process, after all. Stream of consciousness, here we go. (Which is another part of learning to talk to your soul, letting it be non-linear.)
So many people don’t trust themselves. You may hear a message, receive intuitive guidance, or connect to an inner knowing, but rather than trust, acknowledge and follow this knowing, you look around you. Who can interpret this? Was it really a sign? What does it all mean? Should you? Really should you?
And that, my dear, in all love and sincerity, is exactly the problem.
With all due respect — stop fucking around.
Stop doubting yourself. If you talk to your soul and get an answer, listen!
Stop going back and forth on the thing you know you want to do and know you must do all while wringing your hands that life isn’t moving forward as you’d like it to.
You know what your soul is asking you to do, yet you’re not doing it.
Even if your soul is asking you to take time to listen. Do you truly listen? Or do you fill your time with meaningless things, others’ demands, priorities and expectations?
How do you expect to wake up one day and live a soulful life if you don’t put soul first and foremost right now, today? If you want to talk to your soul, you better be ready to listen!
It’s as easy as this — when you grow tired of how you’re currently living, and you give up the hope that your present methods will work out for you, you will change. You will surrender. And you will give in to your soul.
Depending upon how stubborn you are, this can take any length of time. But it can also take no time at all.
I happen to be very stubborn, with a steel grip. It takes me a long time. But also — when I decide, I decide. I am done.
Today I woke up, and I am done.
I am recommitting to magic. Recommitting to my soul. Committing to flow. Committing to creating from within every day.
Committing to sharing my message each and every day via all social channels and email too without worry that I am annoying people (I know my true soul tribe will look forward to these messages each and every day) and also committing to selling everyday.
Selling my heartfelt offers and growing The Starlets because that is an offering from my soul and my dream, what I am now creating from within is 197 members, all supporting and loving one another on the way to realizing their goals.
For those of us who live for the magic.
The ones ready to take the dreams living inside of them and make them real.
The ones dedicated to overcoming their own bullshit no matter how long it takes.
The ones who will never give up.
The ones also available for instant manifestation.
The dreamers. The doers. The starry-eyed ones who will never stop looking up, up, up —
It’s time to look within.
To talk to your soul.
To ask for answers, guidance, and just to say hello.
She’s been waiting for you.
So much more to come.
So come on, let’s go —
It’s time to show the world who you really are.
All the love,
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