The missing step to find your life purpose

A lot of times people feel like they’d be able to love themselves if only they knew what they were meant to do in this world.

But this is searching for a reason to justify your existance, and you don’t need a reason to justify your existence.

You are worthy because you are. You are a manifestation of love, of a prayer.

Self-love comes before you find your life purpose, and not just because it feels good. It’s actually very practical. Your soul is a unique thumbprint and your purpose is a unique expression of that thumbprint.

Creating something in the world is the ultimate expression of your true self, but if you don’t love yourself, you won’t love what you create.

This came up for me very early in my online adventures, after the first launch of The Big Shift. After the launch, as I finalized the content and got ready to deliver it, it felt like being rammed up against a stranger in an elevator.

Maybe that sounds weird, but it was if I was rammed up against my own energy. I felt my own energy, the full expression of it, as I entered into the flow to create the course materials.

To get close to this energy — and your true self — you have to love yourself. Otherwise you will literally be repelled by your own energy. You won’t have the capacity to sit with its power. All pain is a call for love. All pain is just you rejecting yourself because you feel rejected by the world and in turn blame and reject yourself.

The answer is not to find your life purpose so you can feel whole and worthy, but to love yourself when you feel rejected and alone. Not to stay there, but to find the love there. In that love, you will rise.

Because let’s now talk about the second truth….

You can’t base your worth on the work you do. Because that doesn’t come from a place of love, but of fear.

And that’s dangerous because no matter how on fire you are, no matter how big your purpose and desire, you will encounter failure along the way. And if you base your sense of self-worth on your success, then your fragile sense of love will eviscerate.

When you’re hot on the trail of creating your life purpose and dream life, the stakes are even higher. It’s not just some random idea you’re birthing into the world, but the very essence of you.

When you experience momentary failure, it feels like the world is rejecting you. It seems like your absolute worst fears are coming true. It’s happened to me. Many times.

And you know what you have to do? Cry it out, pick yourself back up, and keep going.

Because you love yourself enough to know that you can’t give up on yourself. You were BORN for this and it’s not a matter of IF it will work, but WHEN.

So you keep going, and as you evolve, then your purpose will evolve, too. And this is another reason why you can’t define yourself by what you do. Your identity must come from some place deeper, your connection to self, and not the expression of self.
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Following your life purpose, creating a business if that’s your calling — it will be the greatest spiritual adventure of your life.

But it’s in no way a solution to your life’s problems. It’s in no way a solution to any feelings that you don’t love yourself.

Your greatest task is to love yourself first. (Spoiler alert! I’m creating a new course called Smother Yourself In Self-Love. What questions do you have about self love? Comment on my Facebook page and let me know!)

Allow yourself to drift, to experiment, to take action, even if it seems unrelated to anything. I took jewerly-making classes and did other random things just to take action, create positive inertia and discover more about who I was.

Don’t worry about being happy or trying to find your life purpose or getting rich or making money. Instead, love yourself first.

And from that connection of unconditional self-love, everything else will flow.

I hope this served you. If it did, please share on social media!
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All the best,
Suzanne

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